Activism (& Advocacy!)

So… what’s this about a cult?

You might find it surprising, maybe even a little weird, that I’m essentially telling the whole world such a personal piece of my life history. It wasn’t always like this. In fact, I didn’t tell most of my professional, academic, and social circles that I was born into the Unification Church until fairly recently.

A combination of things the past few years prompted me to start speaking up about the abuses myself and many other Second Generation Adults (SGAs) in the ex-moonie community faced, while simultaneously driving me to pursue my dream career:

I took a Harvard Extension School course in human trafficking and modern slavery. I realized that much of what happened during my childhood fell under definitions of labor trafficking and forced servitude, sex trafficking, child trafficking, and overall exploitation.

A more extremist sub-sect of the original Unification Church participated in the January 6th riots. It was a wake up call for several of us in the ex-moonie SGA community, as we realized that the power this extremist ideology held wasn’t just something from our past that we could forget. It was continuing to evolve into even more vicious forms. Several of us decided to start speaking out about our past and how it connected to our present in the hopes that maybe our warnings could prevent others from getting sucked into harmful groups such as this.

Finally, I got rejected from all eight PhD programs I applied to. 2020 was a tough year. My house burnt down at the end of it (true story). By the time I got the last rejection letter, I was in the midst of a quarter life crisis and was reaching out to various researchers hoping someone could help me figure out a research path that gave me more purpose. I found my current center director and have been growing there ever since!

I have been speaking out about the Unification Church since first going on the Falling Out Podcast in fall of 2021 to talk about my upbringing and how I left. 

My activism focuses on educating the public about not only the atrocities the Unification Church committed, but also how this cult connects to other and larger systems of oppression that are all around us.

I am also more than a mental health researcher, in that I am a mental healthcare user. I advocate for mental healthcare by being transparent about my own struggles with depression, anxiety, and complex PTSD, along with the healing I’ve experienced through prioritizing my mental wellness.

I can go on and on about all of these topics, so take a look around this page to see various links to blogs, podcasts, and other resources, where I do go on and on about them! These are things I have found helpful, have something to say about, or have been featured in!

Happy browsing

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What is the Unification Church?

The Unification Church, better known as the “Moonies,” is a well known cult that rose to fame in the United States in the late 1970s into the 1980s. If you’ve ever seen scenes of a mass wedding with thousands of couples on those generic cult documentaries, that’s the one!
These coerced arranged marriages, while sensational, is only the tip of the iceburg when it comes to all the shady stuff this cult has done. From ties with the Korean CIA and support of South American coups/dictators, to sex rituals, money laundering, human trafficking, and weapons manufacturing, there is SO MUCH to get into with this. So I’ll let you do that research on your own, with some helpful links to start you off on this page. Pick whatever UC rabbit hole appeals the most to you.
Moonie Material

Start with some Wikipedia sites:

General UC overview

The UC in the US context

Sun Myung Moon himself

 

Here are more in-depth websites:

How Well Do You Know Your Moon?

The Tragedy of the Six Marys

 

Books on the Moonies:

Bad Moon Rising – by John Gorenfeld, free online version!

In the Shadow of the Moons: My Life in the Reverend Sun Myung Moon’s Family – by Nansook Hong

Other ex-Moonie SGA advocates and initiatives:

Teddy Hose: A brilliant animator, filmmaker, and more who has been exposing the UC for over a decade

It’s Ok to Leave: Anonymous ex-Moonie SGA who has created a website with resources to help those leave the UC

 

Podcasts:

Falling Out Pod: Podcast by Elgen Strait about growing up in the Moonies. Check out my story in Season 2, Episodes 6 & 7

Blessed Child: Podcast by Ren Robot, a former 2nd-generation Moonie with appearances by me sprinkled throughout!

Behind the Bastards: Two part series, “The Moonies Are So Much Worse Than You Could Possibly Imagine” 

 

Social medias to follow:

Faith Y3n: Follow Faith on TikTok, she talks about all kinds of good stuff as a 2nd-gen who got out

General cult resources

Websites & Organizations:

Dare to Doubt – detach from harmful belief systems

People Leave Cults – cult intervention and mediation services

International Cult Awareness Day – educational information and resources

Spiritual Abuse Resources

International Cultic Studies Association

Podcasts:

Generation Cult – about people who grew up in cults

Project Hope Podcast – for family and friends of those in any high-control group

Cultish – explores impacts of cults from a variety of lenses

IndoctriNation – Raises awareness about systems of control

 

Books:

The Cult of Trump: A Leading Cult Expert Explains How the President Uses Mind Control – by Steve Hassan

Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism – by Amanda Montell

Mental Health Resources

Beauty After Bruises: Information and resources on Complex PTSD from a non-profit. Offers financial aid and other resources for mental health care.

Complex Trauma Organization: A website with tons of information on complex trauma

Adverse Childhood Experiences: CDC information and resources on ACEs and other violence prevention material.

NCTSN: National Child Traumatic Stress Network

SAMHSA: US-based govt funded Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

Mental Health First Aid: Offers materials, resources, and training to understand mental health better

Navigating Online Media

Navigating mis-, dis-, and mal- information: Tips and resources on navigating online and social media, from Penn State in collaboration with other institutes.

Screen Hate: Resources on how to approach teens and young adults about online hate, provided by the McCain Institute.

 

I Also Read!

English was one of my Majors for undergrad. I focused on British Victorian literature and Middle English. Reading books starting from a young age helped me to learn about all kinds of things and expand my worldviews. I’m still a big book worm today!

 

Current / Recent Reads:

– I Never Thought of it That Way by Monica Guzmán

– The Kingdom, the Power, and the Glory: American Evangelicals in an Age of Extremism by Tim Alberta

– Trigger Points: Inside the Mission to Stop Mass Shootings in America by Mark Follman 

 

Some Favorites:

– One Hundred Years of Solitude by Gabriel García Márquez

– The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

– Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky

– Evicted: Poverty and Profit in the American City by Matthew Desmond

– Pedagogy of the Oppressed by Paulo Freire

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